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As Veterans Day approaches, I thought I’d share this poem that I wrote a few years ago.  I think it’s self-explanatory.

CLOSE TO THE FIRE

The year is Nineteen Sixty-Three, they’re fighting in Vietnam.
He’s standing close to the fire, awaiting a call from Uncle Sam

They’re pulling peoples numbers, who’ll be next to go?
Each drawing we all stand by; will it be someone we know?

He’s in his first year of college, seeking a better life,
working on building a home, a place for his soon-to-be wife.

By sixty-five they’re married, still worried about his fate,
though still attending classes, he’s now working for the State.

She says we’re having a baby; soon his first son will arrive.
If they call him off to war, however will they survive?

Soon they’ll draw more numbers, it’s called the draft lottery.
If they should pull his number, Vietnam is where he’ll likely be.

Some head for the Canadian border.  Others to Mexico,
but if his number is called, to Uncle Sam is where he’ll go.

It’s not about being brave, though that might be debated,
it’s about facing obligations, which can never be over stated.

This is our country and we find it extremely nice
but that would not be, had not our forefathers paid the price.

Both his dad and oldest brother spent time with Uncle Sam
and the lessons they both taught helped him to become a man.

He’ll not volunteer, likely his body won’t pass the tests,
but if his uncle calls, he’ll offer his very best.

Just as his dad in Forty-Four and his brother in Fifty Three,
when Uncle Sam calls, he’ll answer to the need.

In 44, when Dad was drafted, it was to be “the last world war.”
He had 5 kids and a wife at the ripe old age of 34.

When his brother turned 18, they were fighting in Korea.
He told his mom & dad, “When it’s over I’ll be back to see ya.”

Nearly 40 years later, with another war to be won,
his son  joined the army and learned to carry a gun.

He wanted to go to college, but its 91 and we’re fighting in Iraq.
He enlists for 4 years, thinking school could wait til he got back.

With each new generation’s war, Uncle Sam might make that call
and another family member may be asked to give their all.

Standing close to the fire, facing the stress and strife,
for each new generation, seems it’s been our way of life.

Gramps use’ta say
©R.L.King2012#71

About: Military Service

You can never over prepare.”

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . .  who gets annoyed by delivery men?

It all started back when we were all homebound by the Covid 19 Pandemic.  That was when we first started actually relying on having things delivered to our front door, rather than go to the store ourselves.  Since that time, I don’t think either of us has been back to the grocery store, it’s just so much easier to have them delivered.  Not just groceries, but pre-cooked meals and take-out as well. 

I’m sure we pay a little extra, but it’s just so damn convenient.  Instead of fighting the crowds at the grocery store, then having to carry them out and load them into the car, drive them home and carry them into the house, we now just go to the front door and allow the delivery man to bring them in.  So far, we haven’t found one of them willing to put them away for us, but we’re still perfecting the system.  Don’t rule that out, somewhere down the road.

So, what I’m saying is that it’s just so convenient, we’ve taken to ordering lots of things “online” and having it delivered.  There are numerous delivery services including, but not limited to FedX, Ibotta, Door-Dash, Ubereats, Grubhub, Instacart, Factor, and Home Chef.  Over the last two or three years, we’ve used them all and we’re ever so thankful for them.  All of them.  However, we have one complaint.  Actually, I guess we have two, but one of them is a real doozy. 

Why in the hell don’t they ring the doorbell when they deliver something that they are going to leave just outside of the door?  I get so pissed when I open the door to find something that’s been sitting out there in the hot sun for several hours.  What kind of idiots must they be hiring?  It ain’t that hard to push the button on that doorbell.  That’s what it’s there for.  Use it!

But what is almost as maddening is to open the door and find a delivery sitting right in front of the door.  How the hell am I supposed to get out of my out-swinging screen door when it’s blocked by a box or a bag?  They’re hiring idiots, I tell ya.  

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Gramps use’ta say
R.L.King2012 #562

About: Common Sense

“When people show you who they are, believe them.”

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who has this feature on their car.

THE AMAZING TURN SIGNAL

In this modern day and time,
every car is equipped with this invention.
It lets those behind you
know of your intention.

Look to the left of the stirring column.
You’re sure to easily find it.
It may be small but it’s not hidden
Push it up and down, try it out for a bit.

It won’t hurt you I promise.
Down means left, up means right.
Drivers behind you will see the result
and be pleased with such a wonderful sight.

Avoid the cost of car repair
by using this easy-to-find lever.
Other drivers on the roads will be amazed
and know that you are ever so clever.

That’s the end of today’s lesson
Be safe on our highways and streets
Be considerate of other by using that signal
They’ll thank you for such a unique treat.

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . .  who has learned some hard lessons?

When a man and a woman have been together for a long period of time, it’s easy to get neglectful and forgetful.  It isn’t intentional, but eventually, you just plain run out of new things to talk about.

When you first got together, everything was new and you had a lot to discuss, but after years and years of living together, she’s probably heard everything you’ve got to say. Truth be known, she’s probably heard it several times.  Once we’ve said all that we have to say, we tend to start repeating ourselves.  At least that’s what my sweetie keeps telling me.

My point being, when you run out of new and interesting things to talk about, you tend to stop communicating.  Don’t fall into that trap.  Don’t let it happen.  

Recently, I posted an item which mentioned that Sweetie and I set aside a few minutes every day, which we call “our time.”  These days “our time” often finds us discussing mundane things, such as, “what book are you reading, or what have you been watching on Netflix?  Less likely, (cause, I never watch the news) we might even discuss something that’s been in the news.” 

The point being, we talk.  You should too.  When it gets to the point where you stop communicating, one or the other of you is going to start feeling neglected.  For the neglected party, over the long haul, that can lead to feelings of doubt, despair and regret.  Don’t let that happen to you and yours. TALK TO EACH OTHER!

LOVE SHOWS
From the book Memories & Time ©2017 R. L. King

You can’t simply say, “I love you.” it constantly needs to show.
If all you do is say it, she’ll never really know.

Guys really aren’t stupid; we just make a lot of mistakes,
but just a little more consideration is really all it takes.

Where we fail,,, is in making sure she knows just how we feel.
She needs to be regularly reassured that your love is truly real.

Little gestures are so important to reveal your true emotions.
If she’s to know you love her, you’ve got to exhibit the notion.

Do the laundry, sweep the floor or prepare the occasional meal.
If she’s to believe you love her, you need to show her how you feel.

Compliment her cooking, then get up and do the dishes.
Try to think a step ahead,,, anticipate her wishes.

Kiss her without a reason, hug her with every kiss.
Show her she’s important, that nothing compares to this.

You can’t simply say, “I love you.” it constantly needs to show.
If all you do is say it, she’ll never really know.

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Gramps use’ta say
©R.L.King2012 #237

About: Manners

“Please and thank you

carry much more clout

when accompanied by a genuine smile.”

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who has been up close and personal with a baby dinosaur?

By: Donna Hale Chandler

Life is never dull when you have a child with thousands of questions to ask.

My daughter was always quite curious,
having one question after another.
Seemed her brain was constantly swirling,
giving pause to her father and mother.

Our trip to Florida was filled with wonder
for a blue eyed little 4-year old blond.
In this strange new and exciting world
she questioned every new sight and sound

Why is the sky such a pretty blue?
Why are the clouds so fluffy and white?
Where does the ocean end?
and why so many stars at night?

Her questions and wonder never ended
As she ran and played in the sunshine.
She’d search for funny stones or shells,
each discovery as thrilling as a gold mine.

One day she came running in all excited,
I followed quickly to see what was in store.
She pointed at a small creature, a tiny gecko.
filled with pride at finding a baby dinosaur!

EDITOR’S NOTE: We are both writers. Please check us out… Kindle versions of our books are available at only 99 cents.

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