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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who appreciates AAA?

By:  Donna Hale Chandler

 Many years ago, my daughter and I were driving to Michigan from Florida.  We weren’t even out of Florida when one of the rear tires shredded, sending strips of rubber flying in every direction.  As I steered over to the side of the road, cars behind us were trying to dodge this flying debris.  Fortunately, there were no accidents and no one was injured.

 Once I stopped and caught my breath, I got out my AAA card and called the number on the back, I was told that someone would soon be there to help us.  As we waited, a state police officer pulled behind us to see if we needed help.  I explained that I had called AAA and they would be arriving.  Shortly thereafter, a AAA truck appeared.  A nice man got out, introduced himself, and asked if I had a spare.  I told him I thought it was probably a baby tire but wasn’t sure.  His response was, “Well, let’s check.”

 The trunk was filled with suitcases, souvenirs, and various odds and ends from our vacation, totally burying the spare tire.  However, without batting an eye, the young man took everything out and checked the spare.  Sure enough, it was a ‘baby tire’.  He offered to put that on for us, but cautioned us not to go over 50 miles per hour and that this tire would only last long enough for us to get to a tire store.

 Seeing the look of concern on my face, the young man offered a solution.  “My uncle owns a shop not far from here.  I could tow your car to him and I bet he could sell you a tire.” Thankful for the offer, we quickly agreed, and after loading our car behind the wrecker, the young man opened the passenger door for my daughter and me.

 We took the next exit, but I became concerned when he turned onto a two-lane road that seemed to be taking us out into the country.  What was I thinking, getting into the truck with a stranger?  Where was he taking us?  I asked him, “How much longer?” and he replied, “Not far.”

 “Not far” turned into several miles. I was starting to wonder if I had made a terrible mistake. However, the driver kept up friendly dialog so I kept telling myself everything would be just fine (though I wasn’t sure I believed it.)

 At last, we pulled into a run-down mechanic’s garage.  An older gentleman came out to meet us and assured us that he could replace our tire quickly and for us to “have a seat in the waiting room while he worked.”

 The waiting room was small but reasonably clean, so we settled in for what I assumed would be a long boring wait.  I noticed a bulletin board filled with cards and notes, and couldn’t resist the temptation to read what was posted so publicly.  To my surprise, the notes were thank you’s, written by out-of-towners who had been similarly stranded.  This little garage had gotten each of them back on the road, and quickly headed to their destination.  I can’t explain the sense of relief I felt as I read these short letters. I dug in my purse for a scrap of paper to write down the address of this little out-in-the-boondocks garage. I made a mental note to write my own thank you, to be added to this history bulletin board of the people he had helped.

Shortly, we were safely back on the road.  I should have known that AAA would never let me down.

I’ve made it a priority to renew my subscription every year since.

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who wants others to volunteer?

VOLUNTEER WORK

Thinking that being a volunteer
would be a rewarding way to spend each day,
I ran and was elected to our Condo Board,
For which you receive no pay.

Now I could get involved
in all the policy setting.
I was sure we could make decisions
that our residents wouldn’t be regretting

My phone rang with my first call.
A resident parked in the wrong space.
To some, it was an extreme emergency.
He needed to be put in the proper place.

Other concerns were nearly as important,
unless you feel you’ve been snubbed.
One lady had new plants outside her window,
while her neighbor had nasty old shrubs.

Mr. Fisher had guests for the week-end.
Someone complained the day they arrived.
What was I thinking when I volunteered?
Suddenly, I began to wonder if I’d survive.

Being on the Board of Directors was not a joy,
the complaints to numerous to court,
particularly in a 55+ community.
Of this I’m thoroughly qualified to vouch.

Each day brings a new challenge
with good news or bad to promptly deliver.
Should I decide to volunteer again,
take my temperature to make sure there’s no fever.

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . . who wants to never forget My Military Men.

Both my dad and my husband
answered the call from Uncle Sam.
My dad served during WWII,
my husband in Viet Nam.

There was never any question
of whether to go or stay.
If we’re to have our freedom.
there’ll always be a price to pay.

They each left their happy homes
and all their family and friends.
Everyone praying every night,
their respective wars would quickly end.

My dad served in the Navy.
My husband was Army bound.
Each one completed his duty,
neither giving any ground.

My husband left me
with little more than an “I love you.”
I’m just standing there alone,
no choice, but try to make due.

The serviceman goes off to battle.
Those left behind, just count the days.
We worry about their safety,
willing their warrior to find his way.

We try to rally their morale,
cheerful letters every day,
trying to sound optimistic,
though we seldom feel that way.

 As we celebrate for their return.
think of those they left at home.
And know they suffered too,
though often, totally on their own.

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AM I THE ONLY ONE. . . who didn’t even try marijuana until after I was married with children?

I was sitting at home alone lounging.  My back was hurting.  I had injured it as a 17-year-old and it’s never been right since. On top of that, my bunions were hurting and my knees were aching. As I recall, I was sitting there in front of the TV, probably feeling a bit sorry for myself, when a buddy stopped by for a visit. 

The game was on, so we sat down to have a few beers, and watch it.  After a while, he offed me a toke.  This was in the mid 70’s or early 80’s, and in those days it was still illegal everywhere.  (I’m from Michigan, and somewhere along the way, I heard that those caught smoking pot on the campus of The University of Michigan, were punished with a $5.00 fine, so I guess it wasn’t all that serious of a crime.)  Anyway, I’d never even sampled it before, but I’d heard about it.  I’d heard guys talk about how it mellows you out, but I don’t think I really understood what they meant by mellows you out.  I guess I was still very naïve.  

Well hell, I was in my own home, and I wasn’t planning on going anywhere, so I said, “Why Not?”  That was all it took.  He brought out a doobie, and we had a few tokes while we watched the game.   When you’ve never smoked it before, it doesn’t take much of it before you really feel the effects, so of course, it affected me more than it did him.  Soon I was giggling and having a great time.

Course, the mellower you get, the less you care about the game. So, we chatted some. Suddenly, I noticed that my back wasn’t troubling me nearly as much.  Oh, it still hurt, but it wasn’t bothering me nearly as much.

Later I realized that my knees didn’t seem to bother me as much either.  Oh, my bunions were still a problem, but even that wasn’t as noticeable.  I’m not trying to say that it felt like marijuana was a miracle cure, but it sure did make my hurts less troublesome.  All I know is, I finally felt like I understood what they were talking about, when they said that marijuana mellows you out.

It was years later before I tried it again.  By then, I had moved to Florida, and met a gal who partook quite regularly.  I had recently turned 50, and when she offered, once again I said, “why not?”  I sampled it numerous times over the next few years, really beginning to believe in the benefits.  However, I haven’t been with that gal in years and it’s been quite some time since I last toked. Occasionally, when my back is really hurting me, I remember those days, and wish I had a source. 

Of course, it’s legal now, and I know I could go get a medical marijuana card, but I’m almost 80, and I’ve put up with the pain for over 60 years.  Besides, when I was toking fairly regularly, I worried that it might be bad for my lungs. 

I guess each of us just have to decide for ourselves, which evil, is the lesser evil. .  

Gramps use’ta say
R.L.King2012 #556

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who makes the same New Year’s Resolution year after year?

Yes, I make the same resolution every year and I am going to continue to make the same resolution until I get it right or die, whichever comes first.

My resolution:  Take better care of my mental health.  This may sound easy but believe me it is not.  There are so many things I need to do, such as:

  • Stop dealing with toxic people.  Those who hurt my feelings, talk behind my back, ignore me, etc. do not deserve my attention. Surround myself with those who are kind, considerate and respectful.  (Believe me, they are out there)
  • Let go of the past.  Stop thinking about what I ‘should’ have done.  Convince myself that ‘at the time’ I did my best and let go of the could’a, should’a would’a, feelings.  Days gone by are over.  Let them go.
  • Don’t worry about things that I cannot change.  Yes, the world is a mess.  Fretting and stewing about it doesn’t change a thing.
  • Stop saying ‘yes’ when asked for a favor.  I’m not good at saying no to people so I need to shine up my backbone and start saying, “Sorry, that doesn’t work for me.”
  • Trust my adult children to make good choices.  Let them ‘figure it out’ and know that they can do this because they are ‘good people’ raised by ‘good parents’.

To put every thing in a nutshell.  I need to learn to live everyday as if it is my last – because it might very well be.   I resolve to find happiness each day, be thankful for those around me who love me and let them know how much I love and appreciate them. I will laugh more and frown less.  I will live my best days as I enter my sunset years.

WISHING EVERYONE A TRULY HAPPY 2024. 
ENJOY THE JOURNEY, EVEN WHEN THERE ARE BUMPS IN THE ROAD.

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