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Am I the only one ….. who has experienced the feeding frenzy?

FEEDING FRENZY
© By: Richard L. King
From the book: Memories & Time

beware ye of faint heart.

a feeding frenzy
in the interim between sundown and sunrise

hustlers and hookers share
the neon lit pathways
providing hollow pleasures

….nocturnally

sins of the heart proliferate

evils of the mind propagate

vice flourishes

tragedy prevails

alas, again I say
….beware ye of faint heart

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Gramps use’ta say
©R.L.King2012 #406
Gramps 1 (7)
About: Perseverance

 “That which you overcame gittin there
is often more memorable
than the accomplishment itself.”

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AM I THE ONLY ONE . . . who sleeps well at night?

snoringI have always been able to close my eyes and fall asleep within seconds and once asleep, there’s no waking me. I will probably sleep through the Second Coming.

My sweetheart, on the other hand, has trouble getting to sleep and staying asleep each night. He actually has the nerve to tell me that I snore. I know that can’t possibly be true. He must just be teasing me. I sleep too peacefully to snore.

Some nights he will give me a little nudge and when I finally peel open my eyes, I hear, “Please turn over; you’re snoring right in my face.” So I flip myself over, hear, “Thank,” but an asleep again before I hear the ‘You’. Of course he says that I pick right back up mid-snore but I don’t believe him.

Maybe I’m dreaming that I’m a motorcycle or a race car? But I know for sure I AM NOT SNORING.

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Gram use’ta say

Old Lady 1

“Don’t just pursue happiness,
CHASE IT DOWN!”

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Am I the only one….. who enjoys a complicated poem from time to time?

WISDOM
By: Richard L. King
From the book Memories & Time

All those who hear shall one day listen
all those who listen shall one day hear.

The questions all have answers,
though the answers often bring more questions.

Never stop trying until everything has been tried,
…then seek something else to try.

Mistakes are great teachers
and often,
your very best lessons
come from your most memorable mistakes.

And yet,  …generally
the smarter we get,
the dumber we feel.

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Gramps use’ta say
©R.L.King2012 #330
Gramps 1 (9)
About: Competition

“No matter what yer a doin,
if ya ain’t improvin, yer fallin behind.

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Am I The Only One … who dislikes being called ‘honey’ by strangers

WhyYou know what I’m talking about. You’re in a nice restaurant when the server says, “Are you ready to order, Dear?” “Would you like a refill on your soda, Honey?” At my last dental visit I became ‘Baby Girl’.  Talk about setting my teeth on edge! I momentarily wondered   what the penalty would be if I bit down on those fingers in my mouth.

When did it become good customer service to call you customer, client, patient, endearing names?

I am pushing hard at 70 years old and I do not appreciate the young server or the dental hygienist, both who are still wet behind the ears calling me Honey or Sweetie. My parents gave me a perfectly good name and if a stranger wants to add personal service, call me by my name.

The familiarity of using ‘pet names’ that your sweetheart might use, to me, is neither respectful nor professional.

(I’m just sayin’)

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Gram use’ta say

Old Lady 2

“I’m from Kentucky,
land of beautiful horses and fast women.”

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Am I the only one… who believes aging often improves the process?

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AGING
By: Richard L. King

 It is the common belief that wine improves with aging. Tis so with life, as it is with wine, is it not? Might this not also be true of other things as well?

Kentucky Bourbon is at its best, only after the proper aging has occurred. Jack Daniels, Knob Creek, Makers Mark, Jim Beam, they all enjoy reputations as fine Kentucky Bourbons and I’m led to believe that they all go through an aging process. As I am not an expert in this area, I’ll not testify, but I have been told aging makes the difference.

Music? Can it be classic if it hasn’t been around for a while? Me thinks not. Segar, Springsteen, Billy Joel, Elton John, to name just a very few who have become better with age. Not to say that they weren’t great from the beginning, but they are now CLASSIC. And, to a lesser degree, on the female side we might add Gloria Estefan and several others. They have all stood the test of time and, in retrospect, have become better.

Movies? Gone With the Wind, Casablanca, The African Queen, Citizen Kane, The Godfather, The Graduate and of course The Wizard of Oz have all stood that test of time. We can’t say that they have gotten better because they haven’t changed and technology has. But the story hasn’t changed. The way the story is told and displayed has changed, but in the grand scheme of things these movies are still holding their own.

Cheese? I’m told that the best cheese has been aged, but don’t quote me on that. I’m not much of a cheese connoisseur. I like a good strong cheese on my cheeseburger, but that’s about the extent of my expertise. I’ve come to understand that some cheeses are best consumed young, but there are many more that benefit from aging. Suffice it to say that different cheeses require different treatments.

Aging? And now for the meat behind all this: It is said that 50 is the new 40. Don’t you believe it, 60 is the new 40. The miracles of modern medicine have made it so. Pacemakers, stints, transplants, replacement joints, the list goes on and on. What is common place today was unheard of in my grandfather’s time. On top of that, new technology allows doctors to perform these miracles in a fraction of the time, through ever smaller incisions, making the recovery time miniscule as compared to earlier days.

I’m 74, my oldest brother is 84 and we’re both still going strong. Although we’ve lost a sister and a brother to heart problems, we have another brother who is 77 and a sister who is 72. The two who have passed both made it into their 80’s whereas both of our parents died at age 64. Obviously, the medicines of my parent’s day wouldn’t compare to those of today, but perhaps that is not the true secret to our longevity. Today’s senior, as a general rule, eats healthier and doctors more frequently. Likely those are key factors, but that only partially accounts for todays added longevity. Both of my parents smoked right up until the day they died. My brothers, my sister and I have all been reformed smokers for years now. Trust me; it makes a big difference not only in the way you feel, but from a longevity standpoint as well.

Although I won’t be running any marathons anytime soon, I have aged well and I am truly a happy camper.

…and I repeat, as it is with wine, so too it is with life, aging often adds to the luster, to the intrigue, to the joy.

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Gramps use’ta say
©R.L.King2012 #410
Grampy1 (2)
About: Hard Times

There’s a difference between
‘Rock Bottom’ & ‘on the rocks,’
but often it’s hard to distinguish.